Saturday, February 21, 2009

GEMINI MAN

A man in this Zodiac has a thin long and proportional face. He has a high forehead and very cleaver. He looks like he can not stand or sit still, a very fast person. His nose is just right in size, thin lips, talk fast and very talkative. He can think faster than he talks, but once he start talking, he will talk non stop as if god has gifted him with that special talk machine mouth. He likes to cut his hair short and he is very athletic. He is a tall, slim and every movement of his is 'Fast' or nearly call 'Hyperactive'.

He has a long fingers and always tapping on table or moving his finger as if he is trying to grab something. He is the type who will write or scribble on paper, he never stay still. His hair always well comb or neat. He will spent a long time to comb his hair. He will keep his manicure and pedicure clean. He is a well dress and clean guy, so if you like cleanliness, you will love him.

He will keep all his cloth in big closet, and never throw away even shirts he never wear any more, but yet he still keep buying new cloths and make sure he is in style. He knows how to dress well even with a low budget. He get bored easily with his favorite cloths , cologne. He is very picky, so soap and his cologne even have to be in the same trend or same scent.

If you date this kind of guy, you might think you are dating 2 guys, you will have to guess his feeling and emotion. Is he doing thing because it is a duty, or is it because he wants to?

He change his mind as fast as he change a new pairs of shoes. He can pick up a book and roughly read through and understand it's contents, so if you see a Gemini man who reads the whole book, then he must be influenced by other Zodiac.

He hate to set fix schedule, and dislike a boring same routine job. He could hardly be on time, and can only keep time if it is complete important and necessary. He does not come late because he forgets, but because he always find other attractions along the way. He likes to act opposite to what he wants to do. He is a very good speaker and make a very good politician. He can easily persuade other people and well presented himself in public, a real charmer. If he is a writer, he will write the best seller.

He always search for truth and constantly study himself. He never satisfy about his fame, his reputation or money, because he thinks he deserved more. He will keep searching even he is not sure what is his ultimate satisfaction.

Woman in love normally wants to feel secure and stable, but if you fall in love with this guy be prepare to be alone. He will come to see you when he feels like it. He won't even know how he spent his days everyday, so adjust yourself if you love him.

Dating him is like dating 2 guys, so today he can tell you how much he loves you, but tomorrow he might call you to cancel your date. When he upsets, he could tell you he hate your dress, even it is the same dress he used to tell you make you look very sexy. Do not ask him why he is that's way for he won't have any explanations too. When he is back to normal mood, he will take you out again and forget what just happened.

You can not expect him to be the same person now, and forever. His changes will depend on you, for better or for worst. If you like to take risk and dare for challenges, you will get along with him fine. He keeps his emotional secretly as if hiding it, so you will not be able to see if he crazy in love with you, or does not give a damn at all, but be calm and patient.

He will never leave you if he thinks you are a puzzle, then he will spent times solving this puzzle.

GEMINI WOMAN

A good looking woman with brains, a very interesting person. She has a fast movement and she could not sit still or stand still long. She is able to do many things at the same time and do it fast. If you date her, you will feel like dating many women at the same time. You can not tie her down with the word 'Love' because she cares about love but is it not a major factor of her life. You have to be able to adjust yourself to get along with her many different characters.

She is a dreamer and has many dreams. She eager to learn something new all the time. Even she is the 2 in 1 mixed character type, she is quite lucky in love. You have to put all your efforts to win her affection. Even when she likes you and wonder about your wit, she will also see and inspect your bad side at the same time, because it is in her nature.

She able to keep all kinds of mixed emotions without annoying you or letting you know at all. She can cheer you up by acting like a free little bird. Her conversation will not bored you. She able to talk to you in any subjects. She can make you feel like you are the luckiest man alive. She can make you feel like she needs all your care, but once she needs to stand alone, she can stand alone firmly an comfortably.

She can be your best buddy and talk to you about anything. She can join all your activities with the same energy that you have. She is a quick wit person and learn new things very fast. She can see your projects and she can give you good advice. If she thinks you are not sure that you want her for yourself, she will act like your best friend only, a cool woman.

She can easily make a guy fall in love with her. Her multiple changes and many moods is a 'Charm' for many men. She can be laughing for 2 minutes and later suddenly quiet. She wants to find only 1 true love and she wants to meet her dream guy. She expects a lot and nearly too much. She is constantly waiting for her knight shinning armor even she is with a steady boy friend. She can fall in love or fond of someone else while she is with you. If you break up with her, she will forget you quite fast, because change is in her nature. The Gemini woman breaks more heart than woman in other Zodiac. Because she is a dreamer and always waiting for her knight shinning armor ,so her love life can be complex or a mess.

She hates to write a long letter, so if you write her a letter and expect a prompt reply, forget it. Because she has a multiple personality and multiple ideas, so she hates to put them down in written proof. Because she knows what she belief today can be different tomorrow.

She could communication with more than 1 languages , a real gifted linguistic. If she wants to tell you any bad comments, she won't say it straight away, but she will talk to you about many other things and accidentally come to that subject without offending you. Normally she will not lie. She will work hard and once a while take a long rest. She can get bored and tired with her own surrounding more than at work. She never feel content with her present work, money, or reputations, she will drive to have more. Don't ask her what is her ultimate contentment for she will not have an answer.

Once you get to know her, she will be a supportive person and always be beside you. She has a beautiful dream and she loves to have someone walk side by side with her, together and equally.

双子座    

双子孤傲是因为他们自信,双子善变是因为世界在改变,双子没有耐性是因为他们发现了不值得,双子冷漠是因为他们害怕被伤害,双子花心是因为他们没有找到真爱,双子不在乎是因为你没有看到他们的敏感。      

双子们的笑永远都是最单纯的,无论什么时候你都会看到一直都在笑的双子,因为他们一直都只想把自己的快乐带给别人,却只把悲伤留给自己,你没有看到过双子的眼泪是因为他从来不会在被人面前哭,当你看到双子的眼泪的时候,那么说明你是真的把他们的真心夺走了,因为双子真的很需要一份值得的依靠,他会每时每刻的在乎你的一切,他们很敏感的,会跟着你的快乐而快乐,跟着你的忧愁而忧愁,跟着你的改变而改变,但在你面前他们从来都是快乐的。           

一提到双子的爱,一般人肯定都会说:双子座的人最花心。可是是真的是这样吗?双子和异性的关系好只是因为他们非同一般的亲和力,而双子的真心只有一个,当他找到的时候,他就会付出自己的一切让对方得到幸福,他要的不是他自己能和对方在一起,他要的是对方的幸福,和双子在一起会感到很随和,因为他会包容你的一切,你的一切优点和缺点,和双子在一起绝对不会觉得被锁住,你只要做自己就好,因为双子喜欢的就是真实的你,做作的人根本不会得到双子的心。

有人说双子很坚强,什么都不在乎,是阿,表面的双子确实很坚强,但是内心他们比任何人都脆弱,也许这也是风向。星座的人的一个特性,决不会让别人看到自己脆弱的一面,因为他们都是一个有一双别人看不见翅膀的天使,天生就会给别人带来快乐,双子们的眼泪是透明的,别人看不见,可是自己却能看得很清楚这样的透明的泪给自己开来双倍的痛。          

双子们的人缘很好,因为他们懂得你什么时候需要什么样的帮助,而且双子们会根据不同的人有不同的交往方式,双子很容易相信别人,所以经常会被欺骗,可是在欺骗后他们仍然会轻轻的笑笑然后说:没关系的,他骗我肯定会有原因。双子从来不会知道后悔是什么,因为他们时时刻刻都在为别人想,总会设身处地,可是这样别人根本就不知道,就是因为他帮助别人太多了,所以在他需要帮助的时候却总是孤立无援,然后继续的笑着,笑着找到一个角落,留下那颗透明的泪。

当双子的朋友真的很幸福哦!因为当你遇到什么困难时,他会比你更着急,甚至会失去自己宝贵的东西也会帮助你,他会带给你快乐帮你分担忧愁,可是你却看不到他的孤独和无助,当双子看到你不高兴的时候,无论这时他有多么的郁闷,他也会立刻露出最真实的笑容来帮助你。      

说双子善变,那只是片面之词,对于双子真正喜欢的东西,它是会执着的让人害怕的,就是因为内心太像小孩子太单纯,所以对于他们真正喜欢的东西,他们是根本就不知道放弃是什么的,除非是他们自己发现这个东西不值得,否则他们是绝对不会放弃的,只要是他们肯定的,他们就会有超出别人很多的坚持和执著。

双子的自尊很重要,对于他们最重要的恐怕就是这个了,他们懂得原谅,无数次的去试着原谅,就算别人让自己千疮百孔,他们也会无条件的有自己的宽容,有自己的原则和原谅,就是因为他们的自尊,他们的自尊心让他们相信这个世界永远都是最美的,因为他们的自尊不允许自己放弃这个世界。

在双子的世界里没有分享,只有是你的或者是我的,他们不会把一样东西去和别人分享,因为他们认为这样对那样东西是不公平的,因为他在乎每一个人每一样东西的感觉,只要他认为这件东西是自己可以割舍的,他绝对会无条件的退出,去成全别人,对于欺骗过他们的恋人,他会选择原谅,但绝对不会再和他们在一起,因为他懂得这样不值得。      

双子座的人真的很可爱,真的很需要人的保护和安慰,他们不会放弃世界,却会放弃自己,去成全别人,他们懂得原谅和理解,无论这一秒他有多讨厌一个人,下一秒看到那个人脆弱的一面,他还是会去无条件地帮助他,真的很傻吧?但是傻的好可爱,好让人心疼,痛过以后,他们依然会笑着面对以后未知的路,继续原谅,继续理解,继续快乐,继续的傻着,改变双子真的很难吧?因为他们的心都是金刚石作的,但不是说他们无情,他们的执着只是针对自己的,那么孤傲的一个人,也只是针对自己,因为他们不知道怎么表达自己的内心,所以他们选择了沉默。

Friday, February 20, 2009

只想好好爱一个人



对的时间,遇见对的人,是一生幸福;
对的时间,遇见错的人,是一场心伤;
错的时间,遇见错的人,是一段荒唐;
错的时间,遇见对的人,是一声叹息。

有些人注定一辈子与你擦身而过,有些人注定一辈子只能当朋友,有些人注定在你生命中留下美好回忆,又有些人注定让你为他/她流泪。在我们的一生当中,一定会遇上不同的人,而这些人都是不期而遇的,也就上天瞑瞑中有所安排的。

每个相遇的人,背后都有一段故事,不管它为你带来欢乐或伤悲,我们都应该感激对方。因为是他/她让你开心微笑,是他/她让你变得更成熟,让你成长,让你自己在跌倒后懂得自己爬起来。是他们让你知道如何去爱人和爱自己,让你不再是一个人面对寂寞,让自己更加坚强。所以珍惜所有遇你相遇的人咯!

Thursday, February 19, 2009

警惕:身边的4种坏男人

1.吝嗇型:这些男人的共性是:吝嗇成性,在他们眼中,金钱高于一切,对金钱的渴望和佔有慾几乎达到了病態的程度:他们活著的唯一目的就是攒钱聚財。吝嗇型的男人,对钱和物的迷恋是病態的,甚至至死不渝,难以改变。所以,女人要选择这样的男人来嫁,只能放弃生活中的美衣美食和诸多享受,委曲求全,过一种简陋无味,清心寡慾的生活。

2.暴力型:暴力型的男人,不仅存在于偏远落后地区或文化层次不高的家庭,也存在于一些受过高等教育的知识分子家庭。暴力型的男人是性格被扭曲,人格已经变態的男人,他很难控制自己的行为,带给妻子和孩子的都是深重的伤害和噩梦一般的人生。女人千万不要对有暴力倾向的男人抱有幻想,应该说,一旦发现他有暴力行为,就要果断地离开。离开越早,受害越小。

3.酗酒嗜赌型:酗酒成性的酒鬼,眼中只有酒。嗜赌如命的赌鬼,赌才是他的全部乐趣之所在。为了喝到酒,拿到赌资,这些男人倾家荡產也无怨,卖妻卖子也无悔。酒鬼经常醉得不省人事,或者借酒发疯,任意胡为;赌鬼则经常输得家徒四壁,负债纍纍。要不想自己的人生陪著酒鬼和赌鬼一起毁灭,最好的选择是不去招惹,不去理睬他们。

4.花心型:女人最难以承受的伤害,应该是来自情感方面的不忠和欺骗,从这个意义上来,花心型的男人对女人的杀伤力最大,可以让女人因爱生恨,爱而不得后跌入绝望的深渊。是女人终其一生都难以摆脱的梦魘。

星洲互动

男女之间有纯洁的友谊吗?

有人说:男女之间是没有纯友谊的,当中总有一方对另一方存有幻想,只是基于某些原因,没有將心底话说出来,而继续让友情来掩饰爱意。当你与身边至好的异性朋友迈到以下的情况,你的心情总会有著波澜。

对方交了男朋友/女朋友:如果你並不是將对方视为普通朋友,当对方交了男朋友/女朋友,你一定会觉得不是味儿。

你的朋友喜欢了他/她:你会觉得你的朋友正在爭夺你心爱的玩具一样,但碍于友情,朋友的道义,你还是会撮好他们,但心里一定不好受。

周围的人都认为你们不是普通的一对:別人对你们有过多的揣测,而对方感到浑身不自在的时候,你明白你们只有友谊的存在,没有可能进一步深入关係,心里会是酸溜溜。

爱上对方:由友谊转变爱情,是常有发生的事,如果对方有相同的感受,通常会是大团圆结局,如果对方没有感受,还是不要贸然表白,否则连友谊也会荡然无存。

当你交上男朋友/女朋友:当你的男朋友/女朋友介绍给你的异性好友认识,如果异性好友感到不悦,你便明白对方多是爱上你,你的反应会是一边欢喜、一边担忧,欢喜的是多一个人喜欢自己事,担忧的是你害怕你们的纯友谊关係难再发展下去,你会失去一位知心异性朋友。

对方喜欢上你:对方希望你们的关係不只是朋友,这样会令你感到很头痛,一来你没有心理准备接受对方,为了维持长久的友谊,你会想尽办法,採取一个不显眼又不伤人的方法。

星洲互动

我的生日诠释-6月11日

Birthday meaning:
You are gracious, elegant and prudent. People admire your qualities and some even become jealous of you. You are realistic, flexible and adaptable. You are remarkably kind and moral person. Your Love, You are willing to sacrifice yourself for the one you love. Your lover will always have your gentleness, care and loyalty. You will always be happy to hand around the one you love.

Strength:
Charming and romantic.

Weakness:
Irascible and easily stirred up to strong love or bitter hatred, jealous and envious.

Best job:
Social work, show arts, painting and communication.

还蛮准的。。。想知道你的吗?有facebook的,可以找birthday meaning的application.

Tuesday, February 17, 2009

Chin - 遇見你


感情故事的安排 妳迎面走過來 笑臉可愛

於是我來回徘徊 穿越街道人海 為妳等待


腦海不停重演 妳跟我又再遇見

這巧合我用心可以排練 幸福會兌現


守在妳走過的路線 等妳出現

街道的風景 妳的臉 掠過身邊


美麗的劇情在上演 我們之間 一瞬間

感動在蔓延 這一刻我們又遇見 OH BABY


終於出現在人海 我心動的女孩 命運安排

這是最美的意外 相遇某個路牌 對妳表白


腦海不停重演 妳跟我又再遇見

這巧合我用心可以排練 幸福會兌現 YEAH BABY


守在妳走過的路線 等妳出現

街道的風景 妳的臉 掠過身邊


美麗的劇情在上演 我們之間

一瞬間 感動在蔓延 這一刻我們又遇見


有些片段會走遠 深刻的畫面不會變

守在妳走過的路線 等妳出現


街道的風景 妳的臉 掠過身邊

美麗的劇情在上演 我們之間


一瞬間 感動在蔓延 這一刻我們又遇見

Monday, February 16, 2009

准备好了吗?



一直都不停问自己这个问题。不管为将来的事业,生活规划或者感情方面。一直胆量很小的我,每做一个决定都要犹豫很久。不懂这是小心或是根本是糟糕。每次我都是扮演辅导别人的角色,反而自己要做的时候却久久不能下决心。

就说感情,我已经失去方向。不知道自己所追求的还是一样的呢?或者是经过了那些我带笑而过的两段感情,它们都让我更加清楚自己的要求。然后就发现感情根本不是我想的那回事。听过一句这样的话,爱情无形无味无色,但它却让人感到又甜又苦又涩。你同意吗?

看小说里的一段话心就有刺痛的感觉,“世界上最遥远的距离不是生与死,而是我就站在你面前,你却不知道我爱你”。我已经为下一次的相遇做准备吗?我的答案只剩下一切随遇而安。因为我知道我追求的是长长久久,而不是曾经拥有。双子座的我能够改变这个说法吗?我相信我可以。

Thursday, February 12, 2009

夫妻恩爱黄金法则

1.经常回忆热恋:结婚以后,经常回忆婚前的热恋情景,就能唤起夫妻的感情共鸣,並在回忆中增加浪漫情感,更加嚮往未来。
2.安排再度“蜜月”:婚后,如果能利用节假日,每年安排时间不等的“蜜月”,如来个异地旅游,重温昔日美梦,定能使夫妻感情越来越浓。
3.庆祝纪念节日:结婚纪念日、对方生日、定情纪念日等等,是夫妻双方爱情史上的重要日子。採取適当形式庆祝,可使双方都感到对方对自己怀有很深的爱意。
4.补偿往昔情债:不少夫妇结婚时由于条件所限,未能採取理想的形式来回报对方的爱意,如未能度蜜月,未能给爱人买像样的礼品等等。若干年后,当条件具备时,完成这些当初未尽事宜,就会使对方觉得你是个很重情的人。
5.学会取悦爱人:婚后,女生还是要一如既往地温柔嫻淑,对丈夫呵护关心;而男生则应细心体味妻子的內心感受,不但要处处体贴爱护妻子,而且还要学习一些取悦妻子的技艺。
6.创点意外惊喜:创造一点意外惊喜,对于增进夫妻双方感情很有好处。如瞒著对方,將他(她)在远方的亲人接来会晤,为对方买一样很想得到的物品等等,都可让感情加温。
7.適当来点小別:“小別胜新婚”。在过了一段平静的夫妻生活后,有意识地离开对方一段时间,故意培养双方对爱人的思念,再欢快地相聚。这时,就能使夫妻俩思念的感情热浪交织成愉悦的重逢狂欢,把平静的夫妻感情推向一个新的高峰。

(摘自星洲互动)

娶美女必备的条件

条件一:敢娶美女的人一般来说都是智勇双全,能力非凡。正因为美女难养,挑剔、娇嫩、人人慕仰,肯定应酬多,所以男人首先必须大度,再包容。
条件二:娶美女就像炒股,要有冒险精神,要有投入,而且还要有眼光,知道哪股能赚,哪股是亏。
条件三:美女惹眼、抢手,美女脾气大,而且小气,所以娶美女的人须神通广大,既能化解家庭危难,又能理解外界纠纷。
条件四:美女非一般女人,对丈夫和家庭的要求难免偏高,所以这也就给想娶美女的男人增加了许多压力。所以敢娶美女的男人一定是一个有上进心、已经成功或者渴望成功並有能力和希望成功的男人。
条件五:敢娶美女的人一定是一个有极强的奉献精神的男人。美女不是锁在笼里的金丝雀,不是藏在阁楼里的娇娘,更不是家庭主妇,所以男人要能吃苦;要有充裕的时间陪美女逛街、会友。
条件六:美女肯定有脾气,討个美女做老婆,最重要的就是要有一套对付美女的独家本领。
条件七:美女们有点脾气就像明星们不时闹点緋闻,那才和他们的身份相得益彰,这就要看你是否具有宽广的胸怀及非常人所能包容的姿態。
条件八:家有美妻,不时会有好心人半真半假地拍著你肩膀开玩笑:“你夫人那么漂亮,得当心一点啊!”说到要害处,又戛然而止,他那神色,够让你回家心惊肉跳半天。可谓人心难测,人言可畏,这就要求你身心健康,否则,保不准会闷出什么病来。

(摘自星洲互动·2009.02.08)

对事不对人

我一直都在对事不对人的问题上打转。怎样才可以对事不对人呢?往往就是人做了些让我们看不过眼的事,所以我们才会对这个人有所改观。这个人可以做这样的事,就代表他在做事方面的态度与观点都有所不同了。对这个人的看法不改变是不可能的。要是你说不会,那就是自欺欺人了。不管以后他做的每一样事,你本能的都会以你的‘不客观’态度去看待。